Loving People

Recently, I went on a trip to visit my family and met an extended family member for the first time. Although he didn’t speak English, his actions spoke louder than words. He was so welcoming, helpful, and warm; he simply loved me, my family and everyone around him so much. Watching him, it made me…

Were you mistreated by someone you love? Maybe it was your parent, spouse, or a close friend that you expected to always treat you well. This is devastating, and it’s hard to move past the hurt.  Now you are holding a grudge and you want to know how to let go of resentment to repair…

Have you ever been deeply hurt by a friend? Maybe they were not there for you when you needed them the most; they didn’t keep their promise to you; or they lied to you. When a friend hurts you deeply, it’s life shattering. It can feel like you are all alone with nowhere to turn…

Sometimes, no matter what we do, we can’t reconcile a relationship. This can feel so heart wrenching, but if we don’t accept this truth, how can we love ourselves well? We still want to obey God and love them as he asks. You can learn how to love your enemies from the Bible. You don’t…

Have you ever had a hard time forgiving someone who hurt you? You continue to bring up what they did to you, even though you said you forgave them. The hurt is hard to let go.  Although you may struggle to forgive, you need to remember God’s example. He shows you great mercy because he…

I often struggle to know what to say when writing a card to someone. I want my words to express what’s in my heart… but that’s not always easy. However, through prayer, I can often discern what God wants me to say to them.  Hearing from God for others is one of the greatest gifts…

Are you struggling to overcome being hurt by a brother or sister in Christ? No matter how much you try, you will hurt others… and they will do the same to you. It’s a hard and sad truth you have to accept.  However, it’s important to learn how to respond in love like Jesus. Praying…

When situations in life change—becoming a new mom, moving, or saying goodbye to a loved one—you can sometimes find yourself with no friends. No one to turn to, to share your heart with, or carry your pain and burdens with. It can feel so lonely. Through those seasons, your heart’s desire to have godly friendships…

I want to be genuinely loved by others, and I’m sure you do, too. Having someone help you with no strings attached, or dropping everything to come to your rescue, are acts that you will never forget. Somebody who loves you “just because” is what we all want, and you should strive to give that to…

Sometimes, it can be so hard to connect with our neighbors… despite our efforts and desires. Your friendly wave gets ignored. Your invitation to spend time together gets constantly rejected. Or you feel that they’re always in your business and trying to gossip instead of wanting to be your friend. However, the mission that God…